Saying goodbye to a family pet is a terribly wrenching, and brings many difficult questions and emotions. How to know when the right time is to say goodbye is a very personal choice, and it depends on the pet’s ailment. I’ve gone through several times of saying goodbye to a dear pet suffering from age or disease; the most recent, only a few months ago. The best advice I could give is to say watch your pet closely and assess the stage of her condition. Is the pet suffering more than she is getting pleasure out of life? Is she in great pain, or very uncomfortable, even with medication? Does any lack of mobility and bodily functions cause her distress or anxiety? Does she still get some enjoyment being around you, or does she usually prefer to be alone? Does she respond to you? Does she take pleasure in the happenings around her? Or, is her joy of living gone, beyond the basic needs? Will she suffer even more pain and discomfort soon? Look in her eyes and at other clues to her behavior: Sometimes by doing this, you really can tell if the pet has the will to live, or if it is just enduring life. No matter when you decide it is time, our thoughts are with you and your special dog.
--Heidi
The Old Farmer's Almanac staff
It's hard when one wants to help an animal but can not afford to. The dog might recover with proper care, depending on what it is. You might consult a local no-kill animal shelter--they sometimes accept animals that are very sick and can work with local vets to nurse them back to health, if possible. Or, they might know of low-cost or no-cost vet clinics. Some vets also offer payment plans or discounts.
We are very much hoping that your cat is feeling much better by now. We have just read your message. Whenever something like that happens, we'd suggest that you call your vet for advice. We are not veterinarians and are not qualified to diagnose your pet or recommend medication. Vomiting and diarrhea can be anything from a hairball to something the cat ate, digestive problems, a cold, to something more serious.
When there is a pet emergency, or even just a question for a vet after vet office hours, you can call either the emergency number of the vet (usually a voicemail on their phone will mention the number to call), or often there is a 24-hr veterinary emergency hospital somewhere in the area who takes calls/questions. The two services that come to mind in our area do not charge for advice over the phone, but you might want to check if you call one in your area. The vet emergency hospitals often can advise you what to do over the phone--even a question about food, medication, etc.; or if they think that it is a true emergency they will ask you to come in (but that can certainly be expensive). If you do need to bring a pet in to a vet or emergency clinic, perhaps there is a neighbor or friend who might be able to help take your cat in if needed; some vets also make house calls. Also, your vet might be able to work with you financially, if needed, so that your cat can get the care it needs.
It is always upsetting to have a beloved pet sick--not knowing how serious it is, how to help him/her get better or at least feel more comfortable. We very much hope that your pet will be OK, and that this episode was only temporary.
Best wishes,
The Old Farmer's Almanac team


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