The History of Mother's Day

How Mother's Day Started

By Lucille J. Goodyear
May 6, 2019
Mother and Baby

While the Mother’s Day that we celebrate on the second Sunday in May is a fairly recent development, the basic idea goes back to ancient mythology—to the long ago civilizations of the Greeks and Romans.

The Greeks paid annual homage to Cybele, the mother figure of their gods, and the Romans dedicated an annual spring festival to the mother of their gods.

Mothering Sunday

In 16th century England a celebration called “Mothering Sunday” was inaugurated—a Sunday set aside for visiting one’s mother. The eldest son or daughter would bring a “mothering cake,” which would be cut and shared by the entire family. Family reunions were the order of the day, with sons and daughters assuming all household duties and preparing a special dinner in honor of their mother. Sometime during the day the mother would attend special church services with her family.

Julia Ward Howe

Here in America, in 1872, Julia Ward Howe, a famous poet and pacifist who fought for abolition and women’s rights, suggested that June 2 be set aside to honor mothers in the name of world peace. This happened not long after the bloody Franco-Prussian War after which Howe began to think of a global appeal to women.

The idea died a quick death. Nothing new happened in this department until 1907, when a Miss Anna M. Jarvis, of Philadelphia, took up the banner.

Anna M. Jarvis

After her mother died in 1905, Miss Anna Jarvis wished to memorialize her life and started campaigning for a national day to honor all mothers.

Her mother, known as “Mother Jarvis,” was a young Appalachian homemaker and lifelong activist who had organized “Mother’s Work Days” to save the lives of those dying from polluted water. During the Civil War, Mother Jarvis had also organized women’s brigades, encouraging women to help without regard for which side their men had chosen.  At the time, there were many special days for men, but none for women.

On May 10, 1908, a Mother’s Day service was held at a church in Grafton, West Virginia, where Anna’s mother had taught. Thus was born the idea that the second Sunday in May be set aside to honor all mothers, dead or alive.

Anna Jarvis, bombarded public figures and various civic organizations with telegrams, letters, and in-person discussions. She addressed groups large and small. At her own expense, she wrote, printed, and distributed booklets extolling her idea.

Her efforts came to the attention of the mayor of Philadelphia, who proclaimed a local Mother’s Day. From the local level she went on to Washington, D.C. The politicians there knew a good thing when they saw it and were quick to lend verbal support.

West Virginia was the first state to officially adopt the holiday, and others followed suit. Proclamation of the day by the various states led Representative J. Thomas Heflin of Alabama and Senator Morris Sheppard of Texas to present a joint resolution to Congress that Mother’s Day be observed nation-wide. The resolution was passed by both houses.

Mother’s Day Today

In 1914, President Woodrow Wilson signed a bill designating the second Sunday in May as a legal holiday to be called “Mother’s Day”—dedicated “to the best mother in the world, your mother.”

For the first few years, the day was observed as a legal holiday, but in absolute simplicity and reverence—church services were held in honor of all mothers, living and dead.

In many ways family observance much resembled that of the British version of “Mothering Sunday.”

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I ‘ll Always Love My Mother

My mom, Gladys O. S. was a kind and godly woman. Mom’s mantra was “Give it to God.” She taught me to love and forgive others as often as they offend you. Mom died February 2012. I love you mom! Sleep on Momma, take your rest; we all love you but God loves you best.

Today is a sad one for me,

Today is a sad one for me, because my Mother has terminal Cancer and I know this will be the last one with her on earth, I know there are many Moms in Heaven.And many without their Moms today. My thoughts are with you today.

Linda,my heart goes out to

Linda,my heart goes out to you and your Mother,I wish you both the Best Day you could possibly have,I have lost my Mother and I know how difficult it is.My best thought is to always try and remember the wonderful times you have together and let them bring you peace! Wishing you both all the best.Hugs and prayers.xxxx

Linda Winton->Give Thanks,

Linda Winton->Give Thanks, today, you are celebrating Mother's day with your Mom! I am 58 y.o. I lost my Mom about 12 tears ago! She was my best friend! I miss her every day. Her and my Granmother taught me so so much! am grateful for the gifts I received from those two ladies! They will always be with me in memory and spirit! Stay in the present with the gift of Your Mom's presence!

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I'm so lucky nd aweful thanks

I'm so lucky nd aweful thanks for GOd .my mom is with me nd may i one wish eof God, i pray to my mom long life nd health also nd my mom blessing all time in my head ..I love u sooooooooo much mom.

happy mother's are

happy mother's are the greatest one mom, which I have known in this world... and God will give you a greatest reward, I love you forever............

Happy Mothers Day. I am

Happy Mothers Day. I am wishing that I could tell my mother the same once again. She was quite a woman, not only would she give her shirt off her back if a stranger needed it and her last 5. til social security payment came again, but she also reminded us in a gentle way to walk with God.Again the humor she showed one even at her advanced age was always there. Yes I wish I could tell her once again Happy Mothers Day Mom

Mother's Day has become so

Mother's Day has become so commercialized that it's not what it should be. A mother should be honored 365 days a year, not just one day. My son's always asked what I wanted for Mother's Day and I would tell them, just make me proud... I didn't have children just to receive a gift on one day, my boys are the gift, that I enjoy everyday....

Here is Henderson, KY we pay

Here is Henderson, KY we pay tribute to Mary Towles Sasseen as the originator of Mother's Day. See this link for more info. Thanks!

I live in Grafton, WV in

I live in Grafton, WV in Taylor Co. For anyone who has the time or a chance to visit the Mothers Day Shrine or the birth place of Anna Jarvis ( Webster) please do so. Both are not only beautiful and interesting places but rich in the history of Mothers Day.