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I graduated from HS in the late 1980's we always had a Sadie Hawkins dance each year. It was a great way to get into the school year and everybody wanted to come.
I met my future husband on June 15, 1985. I'm not sure if I would call it love at first sight, but there was definitely a "hmmm..." going through my mind when I first met him. He was my boss. After a few months, I started casually asked him to "hang hang out" with me and some friends for drinks after work. He honestly thought that it was his imagination and I was just being nice. He finally accepted my invitation, and on August 26 that year, he kissed me for the first time and told me he was in love with me. We married April 20, 1986, and the rest is history. I jokingly say that I chased him until he caught me! I guess this is sort of a Sadie Hawkins-like story!
When I was in high school in Winnipeg, Manitoba (Canada) in the '50s, we celebrated Sadie Hawkins by girls asking boys out on a date. The role reversal 'way back then' was a big deal and great fun !!
My husband and I were married on Sadie Hawkin's Day in 2/29/2008. It was a beautiful ceremony and we, mostly my husband, says we only get to celebrate every 4 years :-) We will never make our 50th anniversary! We also named one of our dogs that was born as a singleton in a litter Solitary Sadie Hawkins, the day is special to us!
Probably not so relevant among adults these days, since women are just as likely as men to make the first move. But among teens, especially the younger ones, it's still a great idea, since both boys and girls can both be incredibly afraid of rejection.
In my high school years 1976-1980 the Future Homemakers of America (FHA) put on the Sadie Hawkins Dance. It was held the first Saturday in November and we advertised it for the girls to invite the boys. We made up all the refreshments and snacks, decorated and had the lunchroom jukebox playing. It was also a fundraiser and was a lot of fun.
We'd been together for 6 years but lived separately. We would jokingly take turns proposing and then make excuses like "Sorry, have to wash my hair, or he would have to wash his non-existent dog. I was sitting in the office on February 29th when a co-worker mentioned it was Sadie Hawkins Day. So I called him up and proposed. He laughed and said YES. I explained that it was Sadie Hawkins Day and a joke. He told me " No Baksies". We married 2 months later 44 years ago and are still happily married. Hurray for Sadie Hawkins Day.
A avid reader of Lil Abner-I related to him as a boy! lol! Keep the tradition alivE! GO GIRLS!!!
I enjoyed the strip as a child and would practice Pappy Yokum's expression - the one that killed Shmoos - on my brother. However, I lost my respect for Al Capp when he displayed both racist and war mongering political ideas during the early 1960s. The sexism of the man cemented my contempt. That and a preference for POGO, which I still read on occasion.
The Sadie Hawkins dance at school meant nothing to me until I met my 1st "everything"! We shaved 1 class ... choir class ...and went to a choral festival where I finally met him. Later, when the Sadie was about to happen, I got up the nerve to ask him to the dance. We dressed as hillbillies, and when the photographer took our picture, he said "Lil Abner! Daisy Mae! It's you!" That handsome boy and I dated the rest of that school year until his dad suddenly moved his family to another state. It was my senior year. Fast forward to Christmas 2010, after 21 years and a divorce each,my HS sweetheart found me through social media. In 2011, he moved to my homestate to be with me. In 2013, I asked him to marry me and we were married exactly 1 year later! Thank you, Al Capp, for creating the Sadie Hawkins Day dance which led me to the love of my life! And, thank you, OFA, for sharing the history of this wonderful event! I hope that schools around the country will continue to keep this alive for all of the painfully shy people like me so that they, too, might possibly meet the loves of their lives.
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