How to Properly Display the American Flag
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Hi, Toni: Please accept our condolences on your loss. Usually, only worn out Old Glories are destroyed, but in fact the right of everyone to do as they please with her is protected by Freedom of Speech. Thus it would seem to be perfectly OK for your patriot to be honored as he desired. Thank you for caring so much to ask!
Hi, Jaylynne: You are correct in saying that proper protocal calls for him to not be draping himself in Old Glory, but then again his right to do so is protected by the very same Freedom of Speech that Old Glory so proudly represents as he so incorrectly wears her. Complicated! Thanks for being so patriotic to ask!
Hi, Debbie: Well, first of all, supreme thanks to your dad not only for his service but also for his efforts to bring you up in the "right" way. He sounds like a patriot of patriots. At the end of the day, the U.S. Flag Code is advisory, not an actual law with penalties for violation. Hence much of what your dad and millions of other people take to be regulatory statute is actually just tradition, which is unenforceable. It is ironic that the very freedoms for which Old Glory stands are the same ones that allow her to be disrespected, whether intentionally or otherwise. This is why we often tell folks to see flag etiquette transgressions (of which there are millions even as we write this) not as horrible evils but as true testaments to Old Glory and the freedoms she represents. All of the things that your father taught you were and are correct under traditional Old Glory values: not on "costumes" or clothes (doesn't really matter what you call them, and uniforms are the exception, of course); not on stickers, posters, and the like; no playing around with her. However, all of these things are perfectly legal and protected. Also, it is important to remember that most folks are just doing the best they can to honor our country. If you talk to people from other nations, almost all are amazed at all the Old Glories being flown everywhere all the time—from poles, houses, businesses, everywhere. They think it is a holiday, but, no, it is just Every Day in America. When we see all these flags and flags on clothes and stickers and barns and everywhere else, it's important to remember that many folks don't have the knowledge to know that what they are doing is "wrong." Or maybe they don't have the means to do otherwise. Or the time. Or the energy. Or whatever. They are just trying to do their patriotic best to honor America in their own way, which is why we never come down on them. Rows of flags left up for a week and dimly lit or unlit flags fall into this category. We always say that flying Old Glory in some way is better than not flying Old Glory at all. Most folks are just trying to do the best they can, and may God bless their patriotic hearts for making the effort. And thanks for asking!
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