How to Properly Display the American Flag
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Hi, Marty: First of all, let us give thanks to your father for his service. Whether a flag is placed at a grave is usually not something that cemetery trustees or the like get involved with. Usually, though, little Old Glories are placed in a cemetery to commemorate veterans. To do so for a nonveteran might indicate to some that the family was trying to claim veteran status for someone who wasn't. This being said, however, there is nothing technically wrong with placing a small flag next to the grave of a deceased firefighter or police officer—or anyone else, for that matter. If the family feels that it is appropriate—for instance, if a deceased "civilian" were super patriotic and absolutely adored the Fourth of July—then they are perfectly free to just go for it, whether for a nonveteran firefighter, police officer, or anyone else. Thanks for caring so much to ask!
Hi, Mike: You are correct in pointing out that Old Glory should be allowed to be retired before any further activities/actions take place. Similarly, the notion of everyone creating a celebratory hullabaloo as the last bars of "The Star-Spangled Banner" are played is a practice that has somehow organically evolved, just like the disrespected flag retirement—although the regulations (albeit advisory only) regarding the flag are far more codified than those for the song. All this being said, it is important to remember not only that it's the thought that counts, but also that we are watching history being made right before our very own eyes—and that as a culture we are creating it ourselves all the time, for better or worse. (For example, you are making history by causing the many thousands of people who read your questions and this answer to consider or reconsider how the actions you outline should be handled on their personal turfs. Will your questions in and of themselves change a behavior or two?) How Old Glory and the National Anthem have been employed and honored over the past two-and-a-half centuries (well, almost) has changed a great deal as different generations have carried them forward. In many ways, we may wish to be thankful that as a nation our great respect for our core symbols has changed little over the years and to understand that a few tweaks around the edges as time goes by are just a natural part of life, liberty, and history. Thanks for being so patriotic to ask!
Hi, Jon: If you do not wish to fly this Old Glory yourself, you should be able to take her to the nearest veterans post, such as the Legion or VFW, or even police or fire department, any of which is usually happy to find or give her a new home, sometimes with the Scouts. Thanks for caring so much to ask!
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