Flower Meanings: The Language of Flowers

Learn the Symbolism of Flowers, Herbs, and Other Plants

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Do you know the Language of Flowers? Many flowers, herbs, trees, and other plants traditionally symbolize feelings, moods, or ideas, and as our list below shows, each flower has its own particular meaning. 

Flower meanings have fascinated people for centuries, and they even play a large role in William Shakespeare’s works. Bouquets make great gifts, and it is important to know what your bouquet symbolizes. Many people also want to dress up their gardens with flower symbols that represent them. Roses tend to have special meanings, as do flowers used in weddings. Another important area of flower symbolism is the meaning of birth month flowers.

History of Flower Meanings

The symbolic language of flowers has been recognized for centuries in many countries throughout Europe and Asia. Mythologies, folklore, sonnets, and plays of the ancient Greeks, Romans, Egyptians, and Chinese are peppered with flower and plant symbolism—and for good reason. Nearly every sentiment imaginable can be expressed with flowers. The orange blossom, for instance, means chastity, purity, and loveliness, while the red chrysanthemum means “I love you.”

Learning the special symbolism of flowers became a popular pastime during the 1800s. Nearly all Victorian homes had, alongside the Bible, guidebooks for deciphering the “language,” although definitions shifted depending on the source. Religious, literary, folkloric, and botanical publications were all used to inform meanings.

Examples of plants and their associated human qualities during the Victorian era include bluebells and kindness, peonies and bashfulness, rosemary and remembrance, and tulips and passion.

Flowers provided an incredibly nuanced form of communication. Some plants, including roses, poppies, and lilies, could express a wide range of emotions based on their color.

Pink carnations

Take, for instance, all of the different meanings attributed to variously colored carnations: Pink meant “I’ll never forget you”; red said “my heart aches for you”; purple conveyed capriciousness; white was for the “the sweet and lovely”; and yellow expressed romantic rejection.

Likewise, a white violet meant “innocence,” while a purple violet said that the bouquet giver’s “thoughts were occupied with love.” A red rose was used to openly express feelings of love, while a red tulip was a confession of love. The calla lily was interpreted to mean “magnificent beauty,” and a clover said “think of me.”

In a sort of silent dialogue, flowers could be used to answer “yes” or “no” questions, too. A “yes” answer came in the form of flowers handed over with the right hand; if the left hand was used, the answer was “no.”

Plants could also express aversive feelings, such as the “conceit” of pomegranate or the “bitterness” of aloe. Similarly, if given a rose declaring “devotion” or an apple blossom showing “preference,” one might return to the suitor a yellow carnation to express “disdain.”

Apple blossom

How flowers were presented and in what condition were important. If the flowers were given upside down, then the idea being conveyed was the opposite of what was traditionally meant. How the ribbon was tied said something, too: Tied to the left, the flowers’ symbolism applied to the giver, whereas tied to the right, the sentiment was in reference to the recipient. And, of course, a wilted bouquet delivered an obvious message!

The meanings and traditions associated with flowers have certainly changed over time, and different cultures assign varying ideas to the same species, but the fascination with “perfumed words” persists just the same.

Rose Meanings

Red roses symbolize love and desire, but roses come in a variety of colors and each has their own meaning. For example, the white rose’s meaning is purity and innocence.

  • White rose: purity, innocence, reverence, a new beginning, a fresh start.
  • Red rose: love, I love you
  • Deep, dark crimson rose: mourning
  • Pink rose: grace, happiness, gentleness
  • Yellow rose: joy, friendship, the promise of a new beginning
  • Orange rose: desire and enthusiasm
  • Lavender rose: love at first sight
  • Coral rose: friendship, modesty, sympathy

Special Meaning of Wedding Flowers: Flowers of Love

Flowers have always been a big feature at weddings, too. As an example, look to the royal flower bouquet in the wedding of Prince William, Duke of Cambridge, to Kate Middleton (now Catherine, Ducchess of Cambridge). Her flowers had very special meaning.

The groom, too, wears a flower that appears in the bridal bouquet in his button-hole. This stems from the Medieval tradition of wearing his Lady’s colors, as a declaration of his love.

One fun idea is to have a garden gathering and have each person bring a flower that has meaning to them. Or, paint tiles on a kitchen island with a flower that represents each of your loved ones.

There is a language, little known,
Lovers claim it as their own.
Its symbols smile upon the land,
Wrought by nature’s wondrous hand;
And in their silent beauty speak,
Of life and joy, to those who seek
For Love Divine and sunny hours
In the language of the flowers.

–The Language of Flowers, London, 1875

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Meanings of Herbs, Flowers, and Other Plants

Please tell us which flowers have meaning to you! If we are missing one of your favorites, please tell us which one and its meaning.

Wishing to grow a flower that has meaning to you or a loved one? Click on linked plant names for detailed planting and growing guides.

Symbolic Meanings of Herbs, Flowers and Other Plants
Aloe Healing, protection, affection
Amaryllis Pride
Anemone Forsaken
Angelica Inspiration
Apple blossom Preference
Arborvitae Unchanging friendship
Aster Symbol of Love, Daintiness
Bachelor’s button Single blessedness
Basil Good wishes
Bay Glory
Begonia Beware
Bittersweet Truth
Black-eyed Susan Justice
Bluebell Humility, kindness
Candytuft Indifference
Carnation Women, Love

– Red carnation

My Heart Aches, admiration
– White carnation Innocence, pure love, women’s good luck gift
– Pink carnation I’ll never forget you
– Yellow carnation Disdain, disappointment, rejection
Chamomile Patience
Chives Usefulness
Chrysanthemum Cheerfulness
Clover, white Think of me
Coreopsis Always cheerful
Coriander Hidden worth
Crocus, spring Youthful gladness
Cumin Fidelity
Cyclamen Resignation and good-bye
Daffodil Regard
Daisy Innocence, hope
Dill Powerful against evil
Edelweiss Courage, devotion
Fennel Flattery
Fern Sincerity, humility; also, magic and bonds of love
Forget-me-not True love memories
Gardenia Secret love
Geranium, oak-leaved True friendship
Gladiolus Remembrance
Goldenrod Encouragement, good fortune
Heliotrope Eternal love
Holly Hope
Hollyhock Ambition
Honeysuckle Bonds of love
Horehound Health
Hyacinth Games and sport, playfulness, rashness
– Blue Hyacinth Constancy of love
– Purple Hyacinth Sorrow, forgiveness, regret
– Yellow Hyacinth Jealousy
– White Hyacinth Loveliness, prayers for someone
Hydrangea Gratitude for being understood; frigidity and heartlessness
Hyssop Sacrifice, cleanliness
Iris A message
Ivy Friendship, continuity
Jasmine, white Sweet love
Lady’s-mantle Comforting
Lavender Devotion, virtue
Lemon balm Sympathy
Lilac Joy of youth
Lily, calla Beauty
Lily, day Chinese emblem for mother
Lily-of-the-valley Sweetness, purity
Lotus Flower Purity, enlightenment, self-regeneration, and rebirth
Magnolia Love of nature
Marjoram Joy and happiness
Mint Virtue
Morning glory Affection
Myrtle Good luck and love in a marriage
Nasturtium Patriotism
Oak Strength
Oregano Substance
Pansy Thoughts
Parsley Festivity
Peony Bashful, happy life
Pine Humility
Poppy, red Consolation
Rhododendron Danger, flee
Rose, red Love, I love you.
Rose, dark crimson Mourning
Rose, pink Happiness
Rose, white Purity, heavenly, I’m worthy of you
Rose, yellow Jealousy, decrease of love
Rosemary Remembrance
Rue Grace, clear vision
Sage Wisdom, immortality
Salvia, blue I think of you
Salvia, red Forever mine
Savory Spice, interest
Sorrel Affection
Southernwood Constancy, jest
Sunflower Adoration
Sweet pea Pleasures
Sweet William Gallantry
Sweet woodruff Humility
Tansy Hostile thoughts
Tarragon Lasting interest
Thyme Courage, strength
Tulip, red Passion, declaration of love
Tulip, yellow Sunshine in your smile
Valerian Readiness
Violet Loyalty, devotion, faithfulness, modesty
Wallflower Faithfulness in adversity
Willow Sadness
Yarrow Everlasting love
Zinnia Thoughts of absent friends

Do you have a favorite flower meaning? Or do you know of any meanings we missed? Let us know in the comments below!

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Protection, Safety, and White Heathers

Hello!

I was actually curious if you all had an idea whether white heather flowers represent protection. I don't see them on the list, but I had found that on some other sources and wanted to cross-reference :) I'm working on designing an enamel pin for folks in the place I work for to wear when they are responsible to maintaining a safe space for everyone.

I saw aloe and possibly buckwheat as other options? Are there others that represent safety and protection?

Thank you!

Tattoo for son and myself

Hello :). I am contemplating a tattoo represntative of my son and I. We are both fighting illnesses, and I would love something that is symbolic of healing. Any thoughts appreciated! Thank you!

Blue Rose meaning

The flower language for a blue rose is impossible, unattainable. It makes me so sad.

Promotion

My daughter got a promotion; i'd like to send either flowers or a small plant for her desk; symbolizing prosperity, congratulations, encouragement. Any suggestions?

An alstroemeria plant/

An alstroemeria plant/ bouquet is very lovely. They symbolize prosperity and success in a new venture. I believe what u say ur looking for.

Sisterly love

Hi ! My sister and I would like to get matching tattoos to symbolize the relationship we have. We are very complementary and need each other, what kind of flower/ leaf could represent it best ? We thought of roses but perhaps it's not really fitting.
Thanks !

Suggestion

What a great idea for you and your sister! Going off this, I would suggest violets and lavender surrounded by ivy.

Advice

Hello! I loved reading about this and always found flowers and their meaning fascinating. I was hoping I could get your advice on what kind of flowers would be best as an end of year gift for my daughters teachers? I'm planning on giving them potted not as a cut bouquet so I'd like to get it right :) She's in Pre-K if that makes a difference lol

meaning of flowers gift for teacher

Hi, Amber. What a lovely idea for your child’s teacher. We have a few suggestions for you: basil (for good wishes), bluebell (for kindness), chamomile (for patience, which we are certain she has seeing she is a pre-k teacher!), fern (for sincerity, which you are in your wishes), or sage (for wisdom).

outdoor arrangement

hi there!
i would like to do an outdoor small garden for my father for fathersday. My son and i will be moving soon far away and i would like to mix and match flowers and plants that represent family. i like the idea of pink carnation, white clover, zinnia but i feel lost to which will grow best outside and together. Any help would be greatly appreciated! tia

Where I come from

Hello!!!

I would like your opinion, I want to get a tattoo but not just any flower tattoo, right now I’m in a situation where am moving countries to be with my husband but I would like a flower that means something to remember and never forget where I come from and for new beginnings. Is there a flower you recommend me that are beautiful, and delicate?

Thank you!!!!

Meaning of a Tree or Flower

Hi I would like to get a tree or a flower for my husband who had lost his sister a few years ago. Any suggestions?

tree or flower symbolizing loss

Hi Karey, How thoughtful.

Lilies. The lily is the flower most commonly symbolize the innocence that has been restored to the soul of the departed.

A dark crimson (almost black) rose bush symbolizes mourning, grief, and sorrow. 

A willow tree symbolizes sadness. 

Gladiolus flowers represent remembrance, as does a rosemary (an herb that smells divine). If he likes to cook (or, you do), having a rosemary bush might be a lovely idea.

You’ll want to consider your climate zone when selecting a flower or bush. Be sure to look up its hardiness zone and match against your own.

Our site has flower growing guides, zone maps, and more if you use the search field. All the best!

I need help, please.

Good afternoon. My boyfriend of 3 years, who i would long the presence of quite a lot, is transferring schools, and we wont be able to meet anymore, hopefully only for now. I wanted to make a charm of a flower that would mean new beginnings for him in a new surrounding, as well as us starting anew without one another. I also wanted to express that i wouldnt forget about him and he has had a special place in my heart. Probably too cheesy, but please help me out haha <3

Forget Me Not

What about the “Forget Me Not” flower. It’s a lovely blue flower. You could press the flower inside a charm sealed with UV resin. It speaks to connectedness and memories of time together.

Gardenias and their meanings

When I was little, my family moved to a small city in Mexico known for its perfect climate for growing flowers of all kinds. The market place was full of them, and it was much to my mother's delight. Her favorite flower was the gardenia, and each week she would buy them, filling our home with their fragrance. After a few months of this, her favorite supplier took my mother's hands and, with kindness and compassion, told my mother how sorry she was about all the tragedies. It seems that gardenias in that part of Mexico were the flower of the dead. The seller assumed that each purchase meant another friend or family member of my mother's had died that week.

gardenias

That’s such a wonderful story about your mother and gardenias. Thanks for sharing, Martha!

Need a bouquet that means

I'm making a bouquet for my friend for her birthday because I'm moving out of state and I want it to be special. I want it to display friendship, love, and happiness. But I also want to say something along the lines of "I hope we see each in the future" and "I'll always be here for you no matter the distance.

bouquet

How thoughtful! We would suggest selecting from the many flowers above that mean friendship and love, and adding some ivy which symbolizes constancy.

Meaning of flowers

Refer to book. " Forget - Me - Not ", A floral Treasury . Sentiments & Plant Lore from the LANGUAGE of FLOWERS . Written & rersearched by Pamela Todd ; Illustrated by Jan Penney . A Bulfinch Press Book - Little Brown And Company - Boston Toronto London
First Edition - 1993 . ISBN 0-8212-2000-4 LOC 92-54427
I hope this is helpful .

Missed a flower

Snapdragon.and it symbolism

Snap Dragon or Antirrhinum

Presumption

Missed a flower

Hi! What about Ranunculus? What’s the meaning to this flower?

Ranunculus

Usually, this flower symbolizes “charming” or “charmed.”

Rananculus

meanings : You are radiant with charm ; Wild and Ingratitude . All depends on how it is used in the arrangement.

I need a bouquet that means

I need a bouquet that means 'you're an idiot, but we are still friends '

Flower meaning

Ha, ha. Flowers tends to stand for one thing or another. As you’re creating a bouquet, you might need to combine two flowers. Columbines represents folly and foolishness. There are many flowers in the list above that symbolize friendship from ivy to iris.

If I wanted to display

If I wanted to display happiness and positivity what would you recommend??

flower meanings

Crocus represents “cheerfulness.” Coreopsis is “always cheerful.” Pink roses symbolize “perfect happiness.”

Missed a meaning

You forgot to add True Love to the meanings list for the white daisy flower.

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